True relationships =)

Real relationships have some fights, tears, pain, arguments, and jealousy. But to make them work, they must have more faith, trust, patience, love, laughter, and two people wanting to be together no matter what ♥

听见

你不开心的脸 
仿佛把我推到悬崖边缘 
距离就算再靠近眼前 
我们一样没交点
没有你的世界
就像寒冬没有春天依偎
少了你陪在身边
我的四季只剩下冬天
悲伤 喜悦 回忆 不断重演
静下来的世界
有我的思念
也有你的空虚无边
你有没有听见
寂寞的声音悄悄在蔓延
它住进我们之间
消耗着我和你的永远
你有没有听见
思念的呼唤传遍每条街
就算你走得再远
累了回头我就在你的身边 =)

Communication counts =)

Talking about your feelings can help you stay in good mental health and deal with times when you feel troubled. Talking about your feelings isn't a sign of weakness. It’s part of taking charge of your well being and doing what you can to stay healthy. Talking can be a way to cope with a problem you've been carrying around in your head for a while. Therefore, never keep everything to yourself especially when you know that talking about what you think is better than keeping it. Keeping every single problem to yourself and not letting it out sucks since you can't avoid that thing and you can't stop guessing. So, why not just let everything out and get the answer? right? =) Just being listened to can help you feel supported and less alone. And it works both ways. If you open up, it might encourage others to do the same. It’s not always easy to describe how you’re feeling. If you can’t think of one word, use lots. What does it feel like inside your head? What does it make you feel like doing? You don't need to sit your loved ones down for a big conversation about your well being. Many people feel more comfortable when these conversations develop naturally - maybe when you're doing something together.
 












 

 

 If it feels awkward at first, give it time. Make talking about your feelings something that you do ♥ Communication counts! No doubt on it =)
 

 

Long distance relationship ♥

Romance doesn't always conform to convenience.
I am always wary when I'm going to face long distance relationship. I always hear others saying that 'distance doesn't matter when two hearts are together.' I really want to believe this so that we will still love each other after the months that we're not with each other. And I really want you to know that even though we're not together physically, there is something you must always bear in mind. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even we're apart, I'll always be with you. ALWAYS! I promise.

If there's a particular day that make you wonder and not knowing what to do, remember that, there are moments that trouble enters our lives and we can do nothing to avoid them. But they are there for a reason, only when we have overcome them will we understand why they were there. Besides difficulties and troubles, there'll be temptation somewhere, it sounds terrifying but temptation is never to be feared but controlled =) 3 months of Internship will be a great challenge for us, but after the 3 months, i truly believe that I'll still be the same, I will still remain as the girl that always have you in my mind, always be there for you, always want to be part of you and always love you no matter what happened and what obstacle we might face. Good luck and all the best in your internship! I love you darling! ♥

Music is magical =)

I love musics, I think everyone love music, only the genre of music make the difference. I'm not so particular on music actually, I listen to almost every type of music, except rock. Don't know why, it's just not my type, I sometimes get headache after listening to rock musics. Sorry rockers! And most of the time, I actually pay more attention on the lyrics that the music. A nice song need to have both aren't they? A good music and meaningful lyrics =) But there's something interesting, when you're happy or in a good mood, you will enjoy the music but when you're sad and depressed, you will understand the lyrics. And. Usually when people are not in a good mood, they will always keep it to themselves until they think they can't take it anymore, they're getting insane or too depressed they wanna kill themselves, not everyone do that, but yeah, I am =( The biggest reason that people don't speak out their sorrows is because they have too much sorrows! and they don't know where to start, so when someone keep listening to the same song, aren't they telling you their problems? just that they used a different way to express it. By songs =) #My music will tell you a lot more about me, about what I feel than what my mouth ever could and #music is my escape from the bullshit in life.

Better still, playing music is my way to let out my stress, I can't imagine how am I going to survive when I'm having my Internship at the Cameron Highland Resort =( I think music in itself is healing. It's an explosive expression of humanity. It's something we're all touched by. No matter what culture we're from. Everyone loves music ♥

Books! ♥

Saw this book online
my friend share this on her Facebook =)

Can't wait to get this book! I agree with the title of this book, hope that this book will be an answer to the why. I'm obsessed with books recently. I just can't stop reading books nowadays xD and I'm reading this book by a guy that I pay the highest respect ever, Nick Vujijic =) How can a guy live his life so fully even without arms and legs? =) he never fails to amazed me. However, I still have difficulties in pronouncing his name correctly =( lousy me! -.-

This is a really good book! This is the 14872938651234012758 times reading it again and amazingly I never get tired of it. At least not yet xD hahaha =) this is not a normal book. It is so awesome that every time I read it, I'll eventually learn something =D I'm not sure whether is it still available in any book stores, but you might get it online! 

Till then! 
Cheers ♥

Blessings

We should never complain about how bad our day is
and how bad our month is when so many others out there are suffering.
Be positive think positive stay positive!
Life is good, life is wonderful
I'm thankful, I'm grateful
and I'm blessed! 

拥抱

不要小看拥抱的力量

不知道什么时候开始

我就有一种很爱拥抱人的嗜好

或许，在那1秒钟的拥抱里

有我渴求的安全感

心理压力轰炸

让人精疲力尽

一个大大的拥抱

感觉到太阳会再升起的希望和温暖

一个拥抱能代替所有

爱绝对能够动摇我

在第一时间拯救我

这几句短短的歌词

充分的表达了我的心声